TikTok Sensation Mr. Fantasy Talks Celibacy and Dating in His First Podcast Interview

Mr. Fantasy in Los Angeles in December 2025.
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Need to Know

• Mr. Fantasy is known for his chaotic persona.
• On January 7, he appeared on Taylor and Tay Lautner’s podcast, The Squeeze.
• During the podcast, Mr. Fantasy discussed topics ranging from dating and mental health to his admiration for Robert Irwin.

Mr. Fantasy is making waves in both his personal life and music career. On January 7, the viral internet personality and musician made his debut on a podcast, keeping true to his unpredictable nature. His first interview on The Squeeze showcased his unique perspective as he spoke with co-hosts Taylor and Tay Lautner.

Rising to fame on TikTok in August 2025, Mr. Fantasy has captivated audiences with his catchy music, including his self-titled debut single released in September and the popular track “Wayuwanna.” Speculation surrounding his identity persists, with some fans believing he may be the actor KJ Apa in disguise—a claim Mr. Fantasy has firmly refuted, insisting he is not familiar with Apa or the show Riverdale.

Sitting down with the Lautners, Mr. Fantasy offered a candid look into his life, discussing his affections for conservationist Robert Irwin and his thoughts on confidence, dating, and more.

Mr. Fantasy at the U.S. TikTok Awards in Los Angeles in December 2025.
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In revealing insights into his intimate life, Mr. Fantasy disclosed that he is currently celibate, stating, “I don’t masturbate. Haven’t masturbated in quite a long time. And that’s something that I have chosen to do just because I like how it makes me feel. Makes me feel like I’m rocking it, man.” His declaration surprised co-host Taylor Lautner, who remarked on the contrast between Mr. Fantasy’s content and his personal choices.

Mr. Fantasy reflected on the instincts that drive his artistic choices, musing, “Where does the humping come from? It’s a primal instinct, isn’t it? Do you know what I mean? It comes very, very naturally to me.”

Mr. Fantasy.
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Addressing his dating experiences, he recounted a recent Tinder date, describing it as both enlightening and enjoyable. “I had a wonderful date with the wonderful Abby, who smelled like cookies. I’ve never done that kind of thing before, and I met some wonderful people.” Ultimately, Mr. Fantasy conveyed that he is in a phase of exploration while focusing on his music career, stating, “Right now, I’m just sort of enjoying my life, making music and sort of doing that.”

Previously, Mr. Fantasy discussed his admiration for various figures, including Taylor Swift, and shared his rigorous daily routine, which includes Kung Fu warm-ups, highlighting his dedication to maintaining both his physical and artistic pursuits.